On the last episode of The Real Housewives Of Atlanta, Sheree Whitfield admitted to being physically abused by her ex-husband former NFL baller Bob Whitfield. Since the hit reality show debuted in 2008, Sheree never appeared as a woman who was allegedly physically abused by her husband, she has always appeared to be strong, confident and independent. As a woman who never gets emotional but this time, she displayed her emotions in front of the cameras which makes her more human and now we understand why she has that strong woman facade.
The ladies are all on a couples trip in Hawaii, Sheree broke down in tears when asked about her memories being married to former NFL Bob Whitfield. That question took her back, a place she never wanted to return, she claims he allegedly physically abused her. Bob sitting right beside in a van with Phaedra and Kenya who witnessed it all, they were just as surprised as I’m sure the fans and the viewers were. Bob claims he wants to win his wife back, but he laughed in her face when she spoke about the abuse.
In her mind, Bob hasn’t changed, he will go back to the allegedly abusive man she married and had children with. Would he like it if his daughter who has with Sheree comes home one day from school and tells her parents that her boyfriend has been hitting her? No man would want that but when you have children and they witnessed the abuse, those children grow up with abusive tendencies.
The emotional moment happened while the two were on vacation in Maui, Hawaii and Sheree’s hesitance towards jumping up and remarrying him, was for good reason. He should be trying to get her back with that crazy eye, she is probably the best thing he has ever had but even at the bar in Hawaii he was trying to get Peter to flirt with him. He hasn’t changed at all, like I always say, a leopard never changes its spots.
“I feel like he still hasn’t owned up to a lot of things that he did,” Sheree says Phaedra and Porsha. “And it’s not just the infidelity — you see how immature he still is.”
That immaturity was on full display during a car ride in Maui. Looking back at how bad things were during their split, Bob joked about his violent thoughts. He talked about choking her, if she could breathe, he didn’t choke her hard enough, these are things his children will see and have to go to school and get ridiculed because of his whack a$$ behavior.
Bob brings up a situation he and Sheree had:
“After we split, we were in Las Vegas, I was driving her and she fell asleep, and I was like, ‘Yeah, it’d be easy for me to take the seat belt off of you and hit the breaks.’ So she can fly her ass through the window, you know?”
He then said that he didn’t remember ever physically hurting her in the past. That’s nothing to joke about and we have all seen the funny, goofy and fun loving Bob, we don’t know the alleged physical abuser, when he brought up the choking incident, we were all in shock.
“I never hit her,” he said, asking her. “Have I ever physically touched you? Have I ever smacked you? Choked you? Have I ever choked you? For real, have I? I might have forgotten.”
When Sheree admitted that he had, he kept questioning her, “could you still breathe?” he said. “I don’t remember choking her, but if I did, I’m sorry. ‘Cause maybe I didn’t choke you hard enough.”
That was so ugly for him to say and so insensitive, Sheree was hurt beyond belief, she burst into tears. Kenya tried to comfort her and Phaedra was telling Bob to apologize to his ex-wife. I know Sheree didn’t want to break down in front of Kenya or for Kenya to know her personal business when it came to Bob and the alleged physical abuse but at that time, she accepted Kenya’s comfort but it was still hard for her.
“I always said that he was like a Jekyll and Hyde,” she said. “The funny one, he’s nice, I like him. But there’s two sides. There’s a bad side — a dark side — a frightening side to Bob.”
Bob did his best to console his ex-wife, holding her hand and telling her, “You know I don’t like to see you cry. And you know I don’t like to be the one to make you cry. This is why we’re growing together. Because we’re willing to do this again — if it’s for the sake of the grown kids.
“I honestly thought Bob was a changed man,” Sheree said. “But this Bob right here is taking me back to the cheating and the abuse. I don’t want my girls to ever be treated like that from a man. And then here I am thinking I might give that person a second chance? I’m f—— stupid.”
The next day Bob has Sheree to meet him at the jewelers where he was trying to apologize by buying her a diamond ring. When she brought up the incident that occurred the previous night, a smirk appeared on his face and Sheree couldn’t take it anymore, she isn’t playing with him.
“The only reason I can only laugh about it because I’ll be crying,” he said. “And there are times I’ve shed a tear because of the things I chose to do. But those ain’t the things I’m doing now. That was then.”
That was enough for Sheree, she ran out of the jewelry store without a diamond, you can’t fix a situation with jewelry or money. Sheree was really thinking about giving her ex husband another chance but this Hawaii trip proved who he really is.
“I am thankful that I invited Bob on this trip,” she said in the cameras. “This is a test and he failed. He has not made the changes that I needed him to make. So this is kind of like an eye opener. I’m glad I can see now. I dodged a bullet.”
A lot of time you have no idea who is being battered and bruised, women are great at covering up, making up excuses, pretending like it didn’t happen or convincing themselves this is not who he really is but in reality, that is who he is. She has no choice, she has to walk away from him for good, maybe now she concentrate on a new relationship.
Dutchess Claps Back Against Sky
Former Black Ink Crew reality star Dutchess appeared On “The Breakfast Club”, to set the record straight about herself, Ceaser and Sky.
Allegedly Dutchess interfered in Sky’s life when she brought or allowed her son to interview at her shop knowing that she and Sky aren’t friends. This was some get a b$tch back tip. Dutchess claims that she had nothing to do with Sky’s son and the interview he did at her shop, she claims the producers paid for the interview. But why at Dutchess’ shop which is located in North Carolina? You better believe that Dutchess got paid and she should have at least called or even text Sky about the interview. Dutchess is petty, messy, unhappy and she needs to fix those dry a$$ lips.
According to Dutchess “Black Ink Crew”” is fake story lines are put together by the producers including the lie that she wanted half of Cease’s money. But she stayed on the show, she didn’t have an issue when she was cashing those checks but since Cease is moving up in the world with three tattoo shops, she was going to get her revenge on Sky, Cease and whoever else is in the way.
Dutchess is the one who brought gossip writer Gossip Viv to the radio show to further explain what really went down with Sky’s son. Viv, who did the interview with Sky’s oldest child Genesis (Sky’s children are not twins like she previously stated), explained that she spoke with people before doing the interview at Dutchess’ shop.But why didn’t they contact Sky? At least give her a heads up, people are miserable.
Dutchess: “The first lie that you lied about is that they’re twins. Your one son is 17, your other son is 19, they’re not twins. I don’t know how your uterus could contract like that to have twins.”
“They came to my tattoo shop. I don’t know Sky’s baby daddy and I don’t know her son. If she lied about the fact that she had twins and that’s not the baby daddy we seen on the show, how could I know who that man was? If she said she’s looking for her kids and couldn’t find them, how could I find them? What I need you to do is not focus on my shop being the location for the interview, I need you to focus on your child because this child is screaming for attention.”
Viv: “I was called by Sky’s ex-manager. Me just being me, I’ve been doing interviews since way before Black Ink had a TV show. I made a few phone calls, outside of speaking to my husband I spoke to several of my brothers, I’m all about integrity. When I met the young man he wanted to do the interview, his father was with him and said, ‘It’s okay for the interview to take place.’”
Dutchess: “I didn’t get paid, Viv got a check. I don’t want anything out of this.”
Dutchess is slick and very sneaky, I don’t believe a word she says but again this is fake reality tv and anything is possible.
LHHATL Jasmine’s Court Case Has Been Thrown Out
Love and Hip Hop Atlanta isn’t scheduled to air anytime soon but that doesn’t stop the drama and its seems to be getting dirtier and dirtier.
Jasmine Bleu, the trick who claims Kirk Frost is the father of her son Kannon, her court case for paternity has been thrown out. For me, all that proves, this was a set up from the jump. Kirk and Rasheeda desperately needed a story line or they were gonna get kicked to the curb. I just believe that Kirk paid Jasmine for her part, maybe Rasheeda doesn’t know about the plan but she’s his wife, she had to know.
Last year Jasmine sued her estranged son’s father to prove that he fathered baby Kannon and in court papers she claims she was a kept woman, another word for HOE, she claims he gave her money every month and use of a car to be with him.
Judge Turner gave Jasmine two weeks to find Kirk and get him served, but if she has an attorney, why didn’t he pay a court officer to find Kirk and serve him? That’s how it works when you have an attorney, maybe she is using a public defender or an attorney who just doesn’t care. Jasmine continues to say that Kirk is running from the subpoena, that’s the one statement out of her mouth that I believe. Kirk is a coward, he f$cked this girl, she got pregnant and he won’t take a paternity test to save his marriage? He couldn’t care about his wife Rasheeda and the pain she is dealing with.
Jasmine allegedly located Kirk and he agreed to accept the subpoena, but it was two months after the judge’s deadline. Kirk knows the system, he played her like a fiddle, he knew the court date had since passed, why wouldn’t he accept the subpoena months later? She’s a little dingy, that’s why she has to strip, her head ain’t rapped too tight.
Since the case has now been dismissed, will Jasmine refile? Kirk and Rasheeda have separated allegedly due to this alleged affair. The people who are suffering the most are the children. Kirk ugly a$$ needs to get it together, leave these young girls alone and get his Adams apple fixed, damn that sh$t is hideous.