On the last episode of The Real Housewives Of Atlanta, Sheree Whitfield admitted to being physically abused by her ex-husband former NFL baller Bob Whitfield. Since the hit reality show debuted in 2008, Sheree never appeared as a woman who was allegedly physically abused by her husband, she has always appeared to be strong, confident and independent. As a woman who never gets emotional but this time, she displayed her emotions in front of the cameras which makes her more human and now we understand why she has that strong woman facade.
The ladies are all on a couples trip in Hawaii, Sheree broke down in tears when asked about her memories being married to former NFL Bob Whitfield. That question took her back, a place she never wanted to return, she claims he allegedly physically abused her. Bob sitting right beside in a van with Phaedra and Kenya who witnessed it all, they were just as surprised as I’m sure the fans and the viewers were. Bob claims he wants to win his wife back, but he laughed in her face when she spoke about the abuse.
In her mind, Bob hasn’t changed, he will go back to the allegedly abusive man she married and had children with. Would he like it if his daughter who has with Sheree comes home one day from school and tells her parents that her boyfriend has been hitting her? No man would want that but when you have children and they witnessed the abuse, those children grow up with abusive tendencies.
The emotional moment happened while the two were on vacation in Maui, Hawaii and Sheree’s hesitance towards jumping up and remarrying him, was for good reason. He should be trying to get her back with that crazy eye, she is probably the best thing he has ever had but even at the bar in Hawaii he was trying to get Peter to flirt with him. He hasn’t changed at all, like I always say, a leopard never changes its spots.
“I feel like he still hasn’t owned up to a lot of things that he did,” Sheree says Phaedra and Porsha. “And it’s not just the infidelity — you see how immature he still is.”
That immaturity was on full display during a car ride in Maui. Looking back at how bad things were during their split, Bob joked about his violent thoughts. He talked about choking her, if she could breathe, he didn’t choke her hard enough, these are things his children will see and have to go to school and get ridiculed because of his whack a$$ behavior.
Bob brings up a situation he and Sheree had:
“After we split, we were in Las Vegas, I was driving her and she fell asleep, and I was like, ‘Yeah, it’d be easy for me to take the seat belt off of you and hit the breaks.’ So she can fly her ass through the window, you know?”
He then said that he didn’t remember ever physically hurting her in the past. That’s nothing to joke about and we have all seen the funny, goofy and fun loving Bob, we don’t know the alleged physical abuser, when he brought up the choking incident, we were all in shock.
“I never hit her,” he said, asking her. “Have I ever physically touched you? Have I ever smacked you? Choked you? Have I ever choked you? For real, have I? I might have forgotten.”
When Sheree admitted that he had, he kept questioning her, “could you still breathe?” he said. “I don’t remember choking her, but if I did, I’m sorry. ‘Cause maybe I didn’t choke you hard enough.”
That was so ugly for him to say and so insensitive, Sheree was hurt beyond belief, she burst into tears. Kenya tried to comfort her and Phaedra was telling Bob to apologize to his ex-wife. I know Sheree didn’t want to break down in front of Kenya or for Kenya to know her personal business when it came to Bob and the alleged physical abuse but at that time, she accepted Kenya’s comfort but it was still hard for her.
“I always said that he was like a Jekyll and Hyde,” she said. “The funny one, he’s nice, I like him. But there’s two sides. There’s a bad side — a dark side — a frightening side to Bob.”
Bob did his best to console his ex-wife, holding her hand and telling her, “You know I don’t like to see you cry. And you know I don’t like to be the one to make you cry. This is why we’re growing together. Because we’re willing to do this again — if it’s for the sake of the grown kids.
“I honestly thought Bob was a changed man,” Sheree said. “But this Bob right here is taking me back to the cheating and the abuse. I don’t want my girls to ever be treated like that from a man. And then here I am thinking I might give that person a second chance? I’m f—— stupid.”
The next day Bob has Sheree to meet him at the jewelers where he was trying to apologize by buying her a diamond ring. When she brought up the incident that occurred the previous night, a smirk appeared on his face and Sheree couldn’t take it anymore, she isn’t playing with him.
“The only reason I can only laugh about it because I’ll be crying,” he said. “And there are times I’ve shed a tear because of the things I chose to do. But those ain’t the things I’m doing now. That was then.”
That was enough for Sheree, she ran out of the jewelry store without a diamond, you can’t fix a situation with jewelry or money. Sheree was really thinking about giving her ex husband another chance but this Hawaii trip proved who he really is.
“I am thankful that I invited Bob on this trip,” she said in the cameras. “This is a test and he failed. He has not made the changes that I needed him to make. So this is kind of like an eye opener. I’m glad I can see now. I dodged a bullet.”
A lot of time you have no idea who is being battered and bruised, women are great at covering up, making up excuses, pretending like it didn’t happen or convincing themselves this is not who he really is but in reality, that is who he is. She has no choice, she has to walk away from him for good, maybe now she concentrate on a new relationship.
LHHH Hazel E Fired
Love and Hip Hop Hollywood Hazel E has allegedly been fired from the hit reality show. She should be fired with the ignorant comments she posted on social media for the world to see.
Word is, Hazel E’s nonexistent career might be over, can someone enlighten me on what her career actually is? The only thing I see Hazel doing is stirring up sh$t and trying to check people like she gangsta.
Hazel E comments blew up on black twitter, black Instagram and black face book, those media sites were on fire, ready to get at her. Hazel thinks she’s invincible and can say and do whatever she wants without any repercussions, just like Joseline Hernandez and that a$$ got fired too. Of course Mona Scott Young was not happy with those nasty and rude comments Hazel posted, what she said could affect the entire Love and Hip Hop franchise which could have several people without a job.
After Hazel’s comments went viral, Mona posted an anti-bullying message on her Instagram. “People who spew hate, in truth hate themselves” #SpiritDay
#ActionsSpeakLouderThanWords,” she wrote.
Fans are now threatening to boycott the show if Hazel E isn’t kicked to the curve. Allegedly Mona and her staff have so much to take in consideration by firing Hazel E but that’s a no brainer, its time for the fake Nazel E to go. We are tired of seeing her whack a$$ but didn’t she quit a few seasons ago? Why is she back, too show off her switch hitting boyfriend Rose Burgandy?
“If she don’t fire her then #boycott, any other show would have fired her yesterday,” wrote one fan.
“If your [sic] against bullying, I expect Hazel E to be fired,” added another.
Good bye trick, don’t nobody care about her light skin and or her, that switch hitter b/f she has who taking all of her money may be the only one who gives a f$ck and that’s because she may have a few coins, he don’t want her, he wants her money and a man with a huge penis. Nazel E will never be missed if she walks away or gets fired from the hit reality show, just like she wasn’t missed the last time she quit the show. Bye Nazel E!!
Moniece VS Hazel E For Saying “Dark Butt Monkeys”
Love and Hip Hop Hollywood Hazel E has finally put her foot in her mouth and a few of her cast members are coming for her. Moniece doesn’t hold her tongue, she has a way of getting to you without using any violence sometimes but she is known for jumping over tables and throwing drinks in a persons face. Sweet and innocent she’s not, don’t let the smooth taste fool you.
Hazel E had some social media beef with comedian Jess Hilarious and she made some ignorant and ugly comments calling Jess, “dark butt monkeys,” she claimed that Jess was hating on her light complexion, her light skin and plastic surgery hasn’t helped her at all. She’s still UGLY and just because her skin is lighter doesn’t make her better looking than Jess or any other woman who has her beautiful skin complexion. Hazel is just mad, with all of that money she put into her plastic surgery, it didn’t help, she still ugly. She also brought the gay and lesbians communities into the fold by wishing death and damnation on homosexuals at the same damn time that she was in this war with Jess on social media about lighter and darker skin.
Naturally, the outspoken spitfire, Moniece Slaughter decided too intervene and this was the perfect excuse for her to get all into Hazel E’s business since the two never liked each other anyway. But I digress, Moniece took to social media and posted the message below:
“And isn’t your alleged best friend miles gay? But you dating a gay black male that’s bashing his kind? Oh ok”
“Didn’t snoozle just host a gay club In D.C. bitch didn’t you used to date women and ain’t you sleepin wit a whole gay male? Oh ok I’m pulling up to her next hosting in la dressed in a gorilla suit and ima pound that ass til you so black it’s irreversible bitch make this bitch wish there was a bleaching cream string enough to reverse the black and blue ima give her.”
Moneice is one of those cast members you don’t like but then sometimes she will surprise you with her clap backs. I’m glad she spoke out, there are too many young girls in the world believing if their skin is too dark, they have no worth and that’s further from the truth. Young black woman of all races and colors should be happy with the skin they were born in and whatever their complexion, they are still beautiful.
Moniece definitely went in on Nazel E calling her just about everything other than a child of God and letting her know that since she she has such a huge issue with darker skin, she’ll beat her so black, she’ll be just as dark as her or anyone else. Moniece in’t just talking sh$t, she is bat sh$t crazy and she will roll up on Nazel E with quickness.
How many young girls has Nazel E hurt with her ignorant comments and how many people has she hurt in the gay and lesbian communities. Sometimes its just better to shut your damn mouth!!